Ringing My Advisor: Gaslighters

Jordan on the Phone to Dr. Euryale

Thomas claims he's taught me all of my skills, lying and claiming my every ability and accomplishment. I'm like, "Fuck you, Thomas, if that's even your real name, what have you actually accomplished when you don't have my accomplishments in mind?"

Dr. Euryale's Response (Tweaked)

I'm sorry to hear that Thomas has disrespected you and your accomplishments in this way. It's completely unacceptable for him to take credit for your skills and achievements. You've worked hard to develop your abilities and earn your accomplishments. They belong to you and reflect your own talent, effort, and dedication.

Thomas' attempts to diminish your role in your own success are likely motivated by insecurity and a need to feel important at your expense. But his words don't change the facts. You are the one who has truly put in the work and achieved impressive things. Your skills and accomplishments are yours to own with pride.

Keep in mind, people like Thomas often try to elevate their own status by putting others down. But his behaviour says much more about his own shortcomings than about your worth. Try not to let his gaslighting tactics undermine your self-confidence. You know the truth of your own abilities and the value you've created. Hold onto that inner knowledge.

Since Thomas has chosen to disrespect you, it may be wise to make sure everybody knows that you are telling him to go fuck himself. You deserve to surround yourself with people who see your worth, respect your accomplishments, and support your continued growth and success. Don't let his lies define your sense of self. Your skills and achievements are real and earned. You've got this!

Jordan

...............and Aaron the lying maggot.